Black Men- Its 2009, why do lightskinned girls get so much preference?

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Chi ILL		#161	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2056 07/04/09 1:36 AM	myhandstank wrote: The same reason females like dudes with six-packs its all prefence No . No , not at all ... it's TOTALLY different . "I know that I'm not an angel and I'm not a devil either . I try to be as best as I can & I try to do what I think is right . It's that simple ..."
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mytmouse76		#162	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 10044 07/04/09 1:36 AM	You can't let go cuz the LS people will be hype they are LS and DS people will be mad they are looked down up or looked passed b/c they are dark. Its a vicious cycle that will be hard to fix. It starts with people stop talking about good/bad hair. Kids pick up on stuff early and stuff can stick with them for the rest of they life. S.H.H.O. Student Hip-Hop Organization Do me a favor...accidentally step on your white sunglasses...this is Hip-hop we don't wear those over here...
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Al Audi		#163	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 109 07/04/09 1:37 AM	i just dig LS chicks cuz im LS myself. so its only natural? good answer? L2L
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Chi ILL		#164	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2058 07/04/09 1:40 AM	mytmouse76 wrote: You can't let go cuz the LS people will be hype they are LS and DS people will be mad they are looked down up or looked passed b/c they are dark. Its a vicious cycle that will be hard to fix. It starts with people stop talking about good/bad hair. Kids pick up on stuff early and stuff can stick with them for the rest of they life. But they don't realize it . "I know that I'm not an angel and I'm not a devil either . I try to be as best as I can & I try to do what I think is right . It's that simple ..."
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Id Walk a Mile for a Camel		#165	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 288 07/04/09 1:40 AM	YO I'm not black and through where I live/school I'm around mostly white people msot of the time.....is this like a big issue in the black community? Because I have heard this from black friends and a lot on NT.....is it that huge of a thing that people have stereotypes of each skin shade of black person? seems way OD to me.
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CAFinest23		#166	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1698 07/04/09 1:40 AM	I like all the colors light to dark doesn't matter to me. I've seen some dark women in my life Life Is A Gift Cherish Every Moment....
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Chi ILL		#167	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2059 07/04/09 1:42 AM	Id Walk a Mile for a Camel wrote: YO I'm not black and through where I live/school I'm around mostly white people msot of the time.....is this like a big issue in the black community? Because I have heard this from black friends and a lot on NT.....is it that huge of a thing that people have stereotypes of each skin shade of black person? seems way OD to me. What do you mean ? "I know that I'm not an angel and I'm not a devil either . I try to be as best as I can & I try to do what I think is right . It's that simple ..."
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mytmouse76		#168	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 10045 07/04/09 1:43 AM	Chi ILL wrote: mytmouse76 wrote: You can't let go cuz the LS people will be hype they are LS and DS people will be mad they are looked down up or looked passed b/c they are dark. Its a vicious cycle that will be hard to fix. It starts with people stop talking about good/bad hair. Kids pick up on stuff early and stuff can stick with them for the rest of they life. But they don't realize it . who doesn't realize it? S.H.H.O. Student Hip-Hop Organization Do me a favor...accidentally step on your white sunglasses...this is Hip-hop we don't wear those over here...
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Chi ILL		#169	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2060 07/04/09 1:46 AM	mytmouse76 wrote: Chi ILL wrote: mytmouse76 wrote: You can't let go cuz the LS people will be hype they are LS and DS people will be mad they are looked down up or looked passed b/c they are dark. Its a vicious cycle that will be hard to fix. It starts with people stop talking about good/bad hair. Kids pick up on stuff early and stuff can stick with them for the rest of they life. But they don't realize it . who doesn't realize it? Adults who picked up on these things as children . There are certain things I know now that I sit back & wonder "Where did I GET that from ? Why do I have that ideology ?" ah , ha hem , ego . rip mike .
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airmissionretro		#170	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2540 07/04/09 1:49 AM	Of course you are going to approach someone initially that is attractive physically---that is human nature, NOT animal---but like I said before, physical attractiveness can only go so far...there has to be other qualities in their character and demeanor that makes the attraction worth more than its "face value"....that's my opinion. This is how I, "screen out" the immoral women. I mean, I would take a physically attractive woman regardless of her complexion suitable to my standards compared to a physically attractive woman that isn't---point blank. And this dosen't neccessarily mean in a relationship sense, especially long-term ones----- its the fact that you should value and have standards and integrity over preferences because you can't control how someone looks compared to how someone can treat themselves and most importantly, yourself---you can hold them accountable for that. Not to sound arrogant but, Im a person worthy of respect---and I give it back to those that show it to me , that's all Im saying. I don't care how dark skinned or light skinned you are; or how big your alcorn squash patch is---point blank. TeaM GEORGIA SOLE We eat more Peanuts than Jimmy Carter Member #8- AMR Clayton County aka Shermanville TEAMATLANTABRAVES
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Id Walk a Mile for a Camel		#171	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 289 07/04/09 1:51 AM	Chi ILL wrote: Id Walk a Mile for a Camel wrote: YO I'm not black and through where I live/school I'm around mostly white people msot of the time.....is this like a big issue in the black community? Because I have heard this from black friends and a lot on NT.....is it that huge of a thing that people have stereotypes of each skin shade of black person? seems way OD to me. What do you mean ? people saying "light skinned girls act ___" or "dark skinned girls always _____" etc.
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mytmouse76		#172	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 10046 07/04/09 1:53 AM	Chi ILL wrote: mytmouse76 wrote: Chi ILL wrote: mytmouse76 wrote: You can't let go cuz the LS people will be hype they are LS and DS people will be mad they are looked down up or looked passed b/c they are dark. Its a vicious cycle that will be hard to fix. It starts with people stop talking about good/bad hair. Kids pick up on stuff early and stuff can stick with them for the rest of they life. But they don't realize it . who doesn't realize it? Adults who picked up on these things as children . There are certain things I know now that I sit back & wonder "Where did I GET that from ? Why do I have that ideology ?" i feel you but as adults now or at least people of age and reason we have to be careful what we say/do around children..."if you know better you do better" least you should do better S.H.H.O. Student Hip-Hop Organization Do me a favor...accidentally step on your white sunglasses...this is Hip-hop we don't wear those over here...
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Keithdajuiceman		#173	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1062 07/04/09 1:53 AM	it's preference...........and it's also has a lot to do with black people hating on there darker halves me personally if a Ds and Ls girl was put in my face and I had to choose I'm going to pick the one who look the best guys sit up with that sorry excuse about light skinned chicks look better and fine dark skinned chicks are hard to find....LIESSSSSSSS I have seen trash light skinned girls just like I have seen trash dark skinned girls one doesn't weight out the other then guys sit up and say well light skinned chicks have the better complexion...that $*@% is stupid....in the dark skinned girl defense I can say the dark skinned girls have way better skin B R I C K S Q U A D X Panty Bandit Inc. ☲B R I C KBandits✄
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Keithdajuiceman		#174	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1063 07/04/09 1:55 AM	airmissionretro wrote: Of course you are going to approach someone initially that is attractive physically---that is human nature, NOT animal---but like I said before, physical attractiveness can only go so far...there has to be other qualities in their character and demeanor that makes the attraction worth more than its "face value"....that's my opinion. This is how I, "screen out" the immoral women. I mean, I would take a physically attractive woman regardless of her complexion suitable to my standards compared to a physically attractive woman that isn't---point blank. And this dosen't neccessarily mean in a relationship sense, especially long-term ones----- its the fact that you should value and have standards and integrity over preferences because you can't control how someone looks compared to how someone can treat themselves and most importantly, yourself---you can hold them accountable for that. Not to sound arrogant but, Im a person worthy of respect---and I give it back to those that show it to me , that's all Im saying. I don't care how dark skinned or light skinned you are; or how big your alcorn squash patch is---point blank. good stuff man B R I C K S Q U A D X Panty Bandit Inc. ☲B R I C KBandits✄
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Chi ILL		#175	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2061 07/04/09 1:56 AM	Id Walk a Mile for a Camel wrote: Chi ILL wrote: Id Walk a Mile for a Camel wrote: YO I'm not black and through where I live/school I'm around mostly white people msot of the time.....is this like a big issue in the black community? Because I have heard this from black friends and a lot on NT.....is it that huge of a thing that people have stereotypes of each skin shade of black person? seems way OD to me. What do you mean ? people saying "light skinned girls act ___" or "dark skinned girls always _____" etc. Yes , it's very stereotypical & very wrong . That's just like me saying all people with blue eyes tend to be less intelligent than people with brown or something ... Really doesn't make any sense ... people are individuals , regardless of color , they're going to act the way they act because that's the way they are . ah , ha hem , ego . rip mike .
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cycopth		#176	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 568 07/04/09 1:57 AM	Id Walk a Mile for a Camel wrote: airmissionretro wrote: And for the record, we aren't dealing with National Geographic and this isn't Animal Planet either----animals have one primary objective and physical attractiveness isn't a criteria for that objective----compared to the minds of humans which are far too complex to that of animals. I definitely don't want to get into that... no but it's clearly the primary factor in initial attraction. you're not gonna even approach a girl who you don't find attractive, get outta here with that. we are wired to want to reproduce with women we find attractive. don't try to debate that. that's all i'm saying. besthandsInDM wrote: Yes, the last part came across as "they have to look good for me to be interested regardless of other qualities". Apologies if I misunderstood something... no i guess you understood....but you really think that's shallow? damn. i don;t know one dude who wouldn't agree with me. so u never found an attractive girl that u killed and she still have a low self esteem. look how much sexy girls have girlfriends who are not as good looking (in the eyes of the beholder) n they have a man and have kids, but their sexy friends are walking around lookin man or single n lonely. u cant say that cause nuff girls who u find attractive have too much self issues to deal with, n nuff man has already been thru that. not sayin u not gonna get a piece, but suppose u r not her type. even that look how much sexy/attractive girl give u some an she have a man, when u see her man, u see she's with a scrub, some lame dude who can't dress as good as u or even on your level. TEAM MARVEL - APOCALYPSE "I'M AS FAR BEYOND MUTANTS, AS THEY ARE BEYOND YOU" "FOR I BRING THE PURITY OF OBLIVION , TO YOUR WORLD"
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TrueshotAura		#177	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2465 07/04/09 1:58 AM	I like a mix I don't care. I would take a Dark Chick with asian eyes, white nose, and nappy hair anyday of the week as long as she looks right and has good head....on her shoulders. nah forreal though she gotta be smart
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Al Audi		#178	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 111 07/04/09 1:58 AM	Keithdajuiceman wrote: it's preference...........and it's also has a lot to do with black people hating on there darker halves basically this thread is silly when these threads always come up they are always silly. L2L
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RamZs8906		#179	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 965 07/04/09 1:59 AM	airmissionretro wrote: Not to sound arrogant but, Im a person worthy of respect---and I give it back to those that show it to me , that's all Im saying. I don't care how dark skinned or light skinned you are; or how big your alcorn squash patch is---point blank. Far from arrogant, that's called having standards and not accepting just anyone. Fam, I'm the same way... Team Marvel - Sunspot It's Me Twitches! - FBook
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Keithdajuiceman		#180	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1064 07/04/09 2:01 AM	TrueshotAura wrote: I like a mix I don't care. I would take a Dark Chick with asian eyes, white nose, and nappy hair anyday of the week as long as she looks right and has good head....on her shoulders. nah forreal though she gotta be smart shhh just made me laugh for some reason B R I C K S Q U A D X Panty Bandit Inc. ☲B R I C KBandits✄
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