Checking Girl's phone... Vol. Trust Issues

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Supermanblue79		#21	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 5068 07/01/09 9:35 AM	Did you get bit in the face?
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Jabawokee		#22	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 284 07/01/09 9:36 AM	SoLeCiTy wrote: FYI Been with her for almost 4 years now and I wish I didnt love her.. but it makes it hard when you actually love a person that much You don't love her... you just don't want to be alone...
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IICEMAN83		#23	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 805 07/01/09 9:38 AM	MILLION DOLLAR STACKS wrote: Nawth21 wrote: nothing good comes of snooping. Even when he or she is innocent. if you innocent then there should be no problem Nah .. Its like being locked up knowing your innocent. Its not coo feeling like you cant be trusted
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Russ tha G		#24	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2829 07/01/09 9:43 AM	Well, what were the messages about? If they weren't flirty or talking about getting together or anything else that makes it obvious she's cheating on you, it may be that they are only friends. I have mostly female friends these days, and my GF gets mad when I talk to them about anything at all. If she's talking to a guy that's not obviously trying to smash, I don't mind. If dude seems like a dirtbag, though, I'd call her on it. I live my life one dollar at a time. NT 2001
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Pmighty	gucci!	#25	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 4871 07/01/09 9:43 AM	kix4kix wrote: Pmighty wrote: if you look for something youll find it I've been looking for Janet Jackson for 11 years. i feel you *Team Gucci! Mane* I dont think you feel me like im feelin myself "Niketalk deserves a better* class of thread starters."*
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AntBanks81		#26	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2119 07/01/09 9:49 AM	That's no good man...you gotta check out Twista's "Snoopin" It's done now but that it something you shouldn't do.
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SoLeCiTy		#27	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 613 07/01/09 9:49 AM	Jabawokee wrote: SoLeCiTy wrote: FYI Been with her for almost 4 years now and I wish I didnt love her.. but it makes it hard when you actually love a person that much You don't love her... you just don't want to be alone... How dare you son..... If I didn't love her, I wouldn't take all the frustration we go thru all the time.... don't comment if you know the facts. Ive had many opportunities before with other girls but when you love someone it just dont seem right !!RHODE ISLAND STAND UP!! TEAM RI
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ELTiZZLE		#28	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1050 07/01/09 9:56 AM	imsojayded wrote: drop her team AM FAM
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parada45		#29	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 5164 07/01/09 9:58 AM	My girl goes FBI on my cell I never check her phone though I know she deletes coversations on her cell I might not like So theres no point in looking
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Nawth21		#30	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 5835 07/01/09 10:03 AM	MILLION DOLLAR STACKS wrote: Nawth21 wrote: nothing good comes of snooping. Even when he or she is innocent. if you innocent then there should be no problem There wouldn't be a problem - but without context the snooper can take !#@% out of proportion. Like I delete all my messages, sent and incoming - what if they think that looks suspicious? Or a conversion with an unknown person from the opposite sex, who could be a coworker or something. Especially if they're not supposed to be snooping - do you confront your SO about what was found? Especially if it's nothing significant or telling? Or the snooper just lets all the feelings fester until it blows up and it makes everything worse. If there is dirt going on, well good for you. If there is no dirt going on then you just @*!#@% things up, congrats, you know? Myspace Save The Frogs, They Need Our Help
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MILLION DOLLAR STACKS		#31	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 7683 07/01/09 10:04 AM	Nawth21 wrote: MILLION DOLLAR STACKS wrote: Nawth21 wrote: nothing good comes of snooping. Even when he or she is innocent. if you innocent then there should be no problem There wouldn't be a problem - but without context the snooper can take *%%! out of proportion. Like I delete all my messages, sent and incoming - what if they think that looks suspicious? Or a conversion with an unknown person from the opposite sex, who could be a coworker or something. Especially if they're not supposed to be snooping - do you confront your SO about what was found? Especially if it's nothing significant or telling? Yes i have, and I learned my lesson. !%#% will get out of hand quickly TEAM YOU'RE NOT SMASHING &^
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Prez T		#32	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 7371 07/01/09 10:06 AM	i agree with Nawth . im gunna repost what i said : if it ever gets to the point where u feel like u have to check ur girls phone its time to dead her off . at that point there are two options : a. you dont find anything , but since you dont trust her to begin with ur doubts dont get relieved b. you find 'what youre looking for' and trust her even less than u already did \|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|_T_E_A_M__A_M__F_A_M_\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\| \|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|_'ive got a lot , a lot of Air Max 1s , 87s ...'_\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|
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SoLeCiTy		#33	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 615 07/01/09 10:17 AM	Prez T wrote: i agree with Nawth . im gunna repost what i said : if it ever gets to the point where u feel like u have to check ur girls phone its time to dead her off . at that point there are two options : a. you dont find anything , but since you dont trust her to begin with ur doubts dont get relieved b. you find 'what youre looking for' and trust her even less than u already did This is tough to take but maybe the best reply in here. Thanks Nawth !!RHODE ISLAND STAND UP!! TEAM RI
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Weekend Girl		#34	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 1003 07/01/09 10:24 AM	I don't check his @!% even though he gave me his password/passcode or whatever. He always looks through my phone and the funny thing is I have @!% on there that could be misconstrued but I haven't gotten my card pulled. Probably because I don't fight him when he grabs it. Reverse psychology Team Negrodamus http://miss-right-now.blogspot.com/ Follow Me on Twitter I ~~Used To~~ Get It In ~~Ohio~~ Toronto
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Iansmk		#35	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 205 07/01/09 10:27 AM	4 years? u need to stop wasting urs and her time. put a ring on it or move on
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brandonb2005		#36	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2085 07/01/09 10:54 AM	SoLeCiTy wrote: Whats up Guys, So yesterday I decided to check my girl's phone and ran through some conversations that weren't meant for me to see and now shes mad at me... Now we have been having many issues going on in our relationship and I've been have a strong feeling that something was not right. I want to trust her but it seems like every time I'm around her something comes up. Was it right for me to check her phone? Have any of you guys done that? If so how did you guys handle it? Female trait! If you dont trust her then move on know need to go digging for something you assume is their. "My Defense is IN-PREGNABLE"
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Calypso Chanta		#37	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 2576 07/01/09 11:09 AM	SoLeCiTy wrote: Whats up Guys, So yesterday I decided to check my girl's phone and ran through some conversations that weren't meant for me to see and now shes mad at me... Now we have been having many issues going on in our relationship and I've been have a strong feeling that something was not right. I want to trust her but it seems like every time I'm around her something comes up. Was it right for me to check her phone? Have any of you guys done that? If so how did you guys handle it? You actin like a real girl right now. Clearly one of the fundamental things about relationships between two people is trust, so since neither of you seem to have it, its curtains. Worse off you've been in the relationship for 4 years? You clearly don't love her as much as you put on. I don't have context under which this happened but objectively, it looks like you are successfully failing. TEAM YOU'RE NOT SMASHING
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chino905		#38	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 957 07/01/09 11:09 AM	Lol my girl checks my phone pretty much everytime I see her. But I'm like whatevers because I got nothing to hide.
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Prez T		#39	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 7377 07/01/09 11:14 AM	chino905 wrote: Lol my girl checks my phone pretty much everytime I see her. But I'm like whatevers because I got nothing to hide. BOOOOOOOOOOO . your lady doesnt respect you . period ... stop this 'ive got nothing to hide' nonsense , its not ABOUT whether or not your guilty , its about the principle . everytime she checks through your phone , shes questioning your integrity and blatantly revealing to you that she doesnt fully trust you . the sad thing is that its too late for you to put your foot down . if you were to tell her all this tomorrow , she would immediately think that you are up to no good since you didnt nip it in the bud from the beginning \|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|_T_E_A_M__A_M__F_A_M_\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\| \|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|_'ive got a lot , a lot of Air Max 1s , 87s ...'_\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|\|Î\|
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webnerd06		#40	[url]	[-]
Registered Member Posts: 656 07/01/09 11:16 AM	If she had nothing to hide... then why would she be mad? idk I would say try to work it out... but if things get too outta hand... drop her... trust issues ftl.....trust me... i just learned this the hard way... for a while i didnt trust my dude... checkin his phone and what not... and NOTHING GOOD comes from that it just leaves everyone paranoid and not trusting each other... he wouldnt leave his phone in the room with me and he changed the password on his computer because he was afraid I'm going to always snoop... we're slowly trusting each other again, but the damage has been done... ive been with him for close to 3 years if that helps... Team Stalker ....Humans can lick too TEAM RAW ....Just the tip... Last Edited By: webnerd06 07/08/09 1:39 PM. Edited 3 times.
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